Do
You Truly Honor Your pastor?
A Biblical
perspective on the heart attitude that must be present when a
church pays the salary of the pastor.
It is interesting
what you can find in your local Christian book store these days. Ive
been a Christian over 20 years and believe me, things have certainly
changed as far as what you can find in a Christian bookstore. Books
on dieting and books on movie stars and sports figures stock the shelves
of many a Christian bookstore. Books unheard of when I became a follower
of Christ Jesus. But it is interesting also what one cannot
find in a Christian bookstore these days. I was shopping around in
a few Christian bookstores a few days ago, looking for what I considered
a pivotal topic in church matters, the pastors salary.
Unfortunately
I found it rather disturbing that when I looked for some publication
relative to the churchs responsibility concerning the pastors
salary that I was able to find nothing. What was even
more disturbing was that I found nothing in print which dealt with
an area that is foundational to the issue of the pastors salary
and that is the heart attitude of those who delegate the funds
toward their pastor. I was left in dismay and disbelief that a subject
that is so important in scripture and one that should be so paramount
in the church was literally ignored! Now dont
get me wrong, Im not implying by any means that the fault lies
with the bookstore. In fact, no one would be reading this booklet
at all if it were not for Mike DiPatino, who is a brother beloved,
and manager of The Christian Discount Book Center in Whittier, California.
In fact, he urged me to write on this topic, seeing
that no one else apparently did!
My intent in this
booklet is to deal with the simple and undeniable truth that unless
we have the right heart attitude toward our pastor(s), then
whatever standard that is being used to determine the salary of a
pastor is wrong, plain and simple. It doesnt matter what
a church or board pays their pastor if their heart attitude is wrong.
What determines whether their heart is right or wrong is seen in how
they understand the concept of honoring their pastor. What
should be my attitude toward my pastor according to the Bible?
I am not interested with how you feel about your pastor,
but your heart attitude toward your pastor. It has been my experience
as a pastor that most peoples feelings toward me (both good
and bad) are nothing resembling the Biblical attitude that one must
have to be able to properly honor any pastor. The true and only attitude
that matters to me and any other pastor is found in the pages of scripture.
My intent is not
to write about the qualifications of a pastor because that is not
the purpose of this booklet. However, it is important for us to understand
that when I refer to a pastor, I am speaking of one who falls under
the Biblical standard that is presented to us in 1st Timothy
and Titus, where the qualifications are clearly pointed out for us
all. So my point is not to address paying a good pastor verses a bad
pastor. It is to say that either you have a Biblical pastor or a fake.
If you have a Biblical pastor(s), then this booklet is for you. If
you have a man who is not a Biblical pastor, then you need to get
rid of him and get a Biblical pastor, then read this booklet!
My intent is also
not to deal in the area of amount of money that you should pay your
pastor. I believe that if the heart attitude is right, the dollar
amount of what you should pay your pastor will follow. Remember what
I said earlier:
"it
doesnt matter what a church or board pays their pastor if
their
heart is wrong and what determines whether their heart is right
or wrong is seen in how they understand the concept of honoring
their pastor."
Lets deal
with a very powerful subject before we delve into the concept of honoring
the pastor. The issue is "do we love our pastor?"
12 And we
beseech you, brethren, to know them which labour among you, and
are over you in the Lord, and admonish you; 13
And to esteem them very highly in love for their work's sake. [And]
be at peace among yourselves. 1
Thessalonians 5:12-13
Peace begins when
the congregation manifest proper, Biblical attitude toward those who
lead them. Paul urged these brethren, begged
them, to do these things concerning their actions and attitude toward
the leaders who ruled them, spiritually speaking. What were the proper
attitudes Paul wrote of?
1. Know them:
To have regard for someone, to cherish, to pay attention to someone.
- This speaks
of the congregation knowing their pastor as a person.
Many shy away
from the pastor and that primarily because of their former
bad experiences in their religious past which hinders them from being
free to love their pastor. Ironically, shying away from the pastor
could be displayed as an over application of respect. Respect
toward a person does not translate into isolation from that
person. You will never get to know your pastor by behaving in this
way. The tragedy about this behavior is that you assume that you know
your pastor based on what others say, or what you make up in
your own mind based solely on what you see with your eyes.
I am convinced that many in the church do not really know their
pastor. They think they do, but they do not, and make little
or no attempt to find out anything about his life. This attitude is
clearly against this injunction from scripture.
2. Know them
which labor among you: The word labor means, To grow weary,
tired, exhausted (with toil or burdens or grief).
- This speaks
of the congregation knowing the pastor as a worker and
the importance of what he or they are doing.
Most people do
not have a clue as to the importance of the work of
ministry, so they flood the pastor with trivial matters which could
be easily handled themselves, thus preventing or hindering
him from doing his God ordained role of ministry. For example, many
wives refuse to go to their husbands to learn from them,
which is what the Bible clearly teaches, who wouldn't hesitate
for a second to run to the pastor. Since many professing Christians
do not read their Bibles with any serious frequency, their religious
past creeps up again, as they were always used to flooding the pastors
life with matters which are in no way greater than the matter of prayer
and study of the word of God. As I said, the word labor means, To
grow weary, tired, exhausted (with toil or burdens or grief). But
again, most people do not know the pastor as a person, nor
his work, so they don't respond the right way to him whatsoever.
3. Know them
which labor among you and are over in the Lord: The words,
"are over you" actually means, to rule.
- This speaks
of the congregation knowing their pastor as a leader..
The primary
use of this word relates to those who are over people, such as, the
elders, the pastors. This speaks of the congregation knowing, respecting
and operating within the leadership of the pastor. Many people in
the church approach the idea of someone ruling their lives as repulsive.
They feel somehow that equality in Christ means that positions within
the church that were established by God are meaningless.
So instead of the people showing respect toward their pastor what
usually happens is rebellion arises, disrespect, disobedience or some
just ignore him all together.
So the instructions
given to the church body have to do with the attitude of the
congregation toward their pastor. The function of the pastor is to
rule or to lead people. To rule means, to superintend, to preside
over, to be a protector or guardian of the flock. It seems to me that
many pastors are afraid to exercise this most vital part of
their ministry, lest they concern themselves of how the congregation
will respond to them. The problem with this thinking is that if a
man is given oversight over a church and fails to do so, he too is
just as disobedient to God as the congregation who will not follow
his leadership. If the congregation is obedient to God, they will
want men to lead them, not someone they can manipulate to satisfy
their own desires.
Know them
which labor among you and are over in the Lord who admonish you:
- This speaks of
the congregation knowing their pastor as a teacher.
Another aspect
of the ministry of the pastor which is very unpopular is this
area of admonition. It means, to warn and to exhort. There is a twofold
meaning in this word, to warn and to teach. The one who is resisting
is to be instructed with the intent as to bring that person back to
the right way. Admonition is the redirection of wrong behavior toward
right behavior. If admonition is not heeded, then the stronger step
of removal is necessary to protect the body.
13 And to
esteem them very highly in love for their work's sake. [And] be
at peace among yourselves.
Also the congregation,
in addition to the things described in the previous verses, are to
treat the pastor with the greatest honorin love. Christians
should esteem these leaders very highly, recognizing their
worth, giving them thoughtful consideration and superabundant respect.
This is the fitting and proper respect that all believers should have
toward their pastor who labor in their midst in the work of the Lord.
This
is the only attitude that should be displayed toward their pastor
if they expect to live in peace among themselves.
The need to regard
leaders highly is further stressed in the second exhortation. Church
members are to esteem, value, and respect their leaders for their
works sake. The Greek is strong: Hold them in the highest regard.
This should be a continuing attitude. Some church leaders
do not command as much personal respect as others, but Paul taught
that all should be held in esteem because of the nature of
their responsibilities before God. Not just some respect, but the
highest respect is due these leaders, and it is to come from
an attitude of affection (in love) for them, again, because
of their work, if for no personal reason. Two reasons for this exhortation
are the nature of their work and the fact that church leaders do a
good service to others.
It isn't the attitude,
"Ill do what he said only if I like him". Rather,
it should be, "I love him because of the great work that is
done in my life because of his ministry".
So we can see
that peace within the church begins with the relationship of the congregation
toward their pastor. We need to have the proper attitude of respect
toward pastors who rule over you in the Lord. I submit to you that
unless a church loves their pastor and continues in that attitude
towards him, the issue of his salary will be a dead issue. Anything
that will be given to him will be grudgingly and of necessity, rather
than from a cheerful heart from people who are glad to obey the plan
of God and bless the man of God.
So what should
be the proper attitude toward the pastor as far as his pay is concerned?
Again, the issue is one of heart attitude toward the pastor.
Your attitude is foundational as to how much you value your pastor.
If you value
him much, then you will pay him according to your estimation of
him. If you value him little, then you will pay him according to
your contempt of him.
Now it should
not surprise you that the Bible never addresses the issue of
how much money you should give your pastor. The reason why is because
its not the amount of money thats the priority, but the
heart attitude and your understanding of the concept of honoring
your pastor. The amount of money that you give your pastor is determined
by how much value you place on him, and that value encompasses all
of his character and work.
The Bible
makes no issue of financial amounts because the proper attitude
precedes financial values!
But if you are
not following Biblical standards to determine what to pay your pastor,
it should not surprise anyone that the only standard of evaluation
will be financial and although that may have its place, finances as
a single standard is nowhere taught in the Bible.
Also, it
is shown in scripture that those who are responsible for determining
the salary of a pastor should not always opt for the lowest, cheapest,
flimsiest, pay package that they could muster. This clearly violates
the Biblical attitude that should be shown toward the
pastor.
Now
the scriptures are clear at to what our attitudes should be toward our
pastor. Lets look at a clear standard when it comes to the proper
attitude that should be shown toward a pastor of a local church concerning
his pay.
17 Let the
elders that rule well be counted worthy of double
honour, especially they who labour in the word and
doctrine. 1
Timothy 5:17-18
- Let the elders
that rule well
First, Paul deals
with the leaders ability to lead. He said, let the elders
(pl.) that rule well. The word, rule, is a verb which translates,
"having taken the lead." We are talking about leaders, not
followers. We are talking about leaders who preside over the oversight
of the church in an excellent manner. What determines an excellent
manner? If you are in a church which is ruled by a pastor(s) who rules
in a way where the environment is conducive to spiritual growth,
then he is doing what God commanded him to do and thereby, he is ruling
well. This should be the standard which determines what it means to
rule well. This is at the heart of the issue of the rest of this verse.
If
the environment in your church fellowship to gives every opportunity
for every faithful and obedient individual to grow spiritually,
then the pastor(s) is doing all that God has commanded him to do
and no more should be expected out of him because no more is given
him of God to do, and no greater work than the spiritual work of
edifying saints is more important to the pastor.
The
pastors responsibility is to do the spiritual work of God, not
fixing dinners, fences, cleaning floors, or a multitude of other things
that have no place in his life. Let me say it again, if the environment
at that church gives every opportunity for every faithful and obedient
individual to grow spiritually, then he is doing all that God has commanded
him to do and no more should be expected out of him because no more
is given him of God to do and no greater work than the spiritual work
of edifying saints is more important to the pastor. If this is being
done, then he is ruling well, and as a result of that, then you as a
congregation, board member, deacon, financial chairman, etc., should
be thankful because, you should be growing under his ministry and having
your attitude geared toward submission under his leadership.
The
pastors primary responsibility, and the only responsibility
seen in the scripture, is the labor in the word and doctrine. If
you have any other requirement that you place upon your pastor(s)
which you consider his responsibility, you
are without Biblical support.
The
proper attitude will indeed cause you to place great honor toward your
pastor, described in the next portion of the verse.
- Let the elders
that rule well be counted worthy
This
means that I am to judge worthy, based on his ability described
above, to deem him deserving of something. You see my friends,
it is the heart attitude that is to be shaped around the ability
of the pastor to lead in a way that is conducive toward spiritual growth
in the church. If he is doing that, then I am compelled to deem him
to be deserving of something. What is that something? Thankfully, it
is seen in the next portion of this verse.
- Let the elders
that rule well be counted worthy of double honor
No
matter how you translate this verse, it means, double pay.
What is double pay? Whatever you are paying him now, he worth double
that, and if the passage says anything at all it obviously speaks of
being generous toward the pastors salary.
The
value of Gods pastor has been diminished by many men in church
financial circles. Unfortunately this is where many men are measly,
stingily and tight fisted with the pastors salary. Since many
of these men do not understand the value of the pastor who rules well,
because they seek other standards outside of that which
is given by God, then they see the work of the pastor oftentimes as
sermons and nothing else. This is where many men in church financial
circles ignore the Biblical perspective of how to honor the pastor.
Why? The reasons vary depending on who is controlling the finances,
which raises another issue which I care not to deal with at this time
to any great degree except to say that it is clear that according to
the New Testament it is the church leaders themselves
who controlled the finances, not boards, committees, Deacons, Trustees,
Financial officers, or any other officers in or out of the church.
But
let me list for you some of the reasons why so many men ignore the Biblical
perspective of how to honor the pastor.
1. Unbelief.
This to
me is the overarching problem. Since God commands the
church to honor the pastor generously with pay, then a failure to
do it is simply unbelief at whatever level.
2. Trusting
in dollars and cents.
I am by
no means implying that the issue of how much money is available for
a salary is not important. What I am saying is that the pastors
finances should not be allocated somewhere between the toilet
paper and the chicken wings! It is to be a top priority and
the church should make it so!
3. A "mother
hen" mentality.
I am convinced
that there are many men who indeed have all of the best intentions
of oversight of finances in a church and that they take their responsibility
very seriously. Many men claim that they are just being good stewards
over the finances of the church. But the question is, what is a good
steward? A steward is one who has affairs to superintend for another.
But how can one be a good steward over the finances of the church
when the Bible explicitly commands that the pastor, who meets
the standard of ruling well, is to be supported generously and it
not be done? How does one claim to be a good steward who cannot be
entrusted to follow the instruction from God, who is the Master? Ours
is not to just sit on the money like a mother hen does with her eggs,
and this is especially true concerning the pastors salary.
4. Misplaced
priorities.
There are
many men in control of finances who would not hesitate for a second
to use church funds to buy what is considered necessary items as they
deem fit. And sometimes these things are not a priority at all.
This leads to a waste of precious church funds. Yet, these men would
not consider for a moment that the pastors salary is
a priority that should be considered well above many things that are
labeled "priorities".
5. Ignorance
of the magnitude of the work of the pastor.
Now in the
minds of many men in church financial circles, they see the pastors
work as that which is very insignificant. They may reason within their
minds (which at this point the Bible qualifies this as an evil
surmising)
"How
long does it take to get these few sermons together anyway? I can
do that just as good if not better than he can! Why should he get
paid so much money for so little work?"
This
attitude, Im convinced, is probably one that is the most prevalent
in the minds of many, many men in financial circles today. They may
never say it, but its in their minds and in their actions!
6. Comparing
salaries in the world with the work of God in the church.
This is
a major trap that captures many a mind of a man or men in church
financial circles. Sometimes these men compare jobs in the world with
the role of the pastor and try through some unknown
method to rate the labor of the pastor with some field in the world.
This is nowhere taught in scripture and should never be entertained
whatsoever by any man or men who determine the financial livelihood
of a pastor and his dependents.
7. Personal
hardships.
Because
something happened to you at your job which decreased your pay, why
do you and why would you transfer that same mentality toward your
pastors pay. If you suffered some financial setback at your
employment, why should you want to take it out on your pastors
finances? You have other options, such as, looking for other work
which will increase your pay or getting another job, etc. The pastor
makes his living from the gospel ministry and no other. He
should expect from the church to receive what he needs, which he passionately
labors over.
8. Distrust
in the pastor.
It is clearly
stated in DaWanda Howards booklet, "The
Portrait Of A pastor",
"Although
the unsaved community has more than their fair share of not understanding
the role of the local church pastor, it is sad to say the majority
of misunderstandings come from the professing Christian community.
Those who should understand, or at least trust the spirit-filled
pastor, seem to be the ones who are the most suspect of their leader(s).
Instead of trusting in the ability, leadership, and integrity of
godly pastors, Christians question all of that as well as pastors
motives." 1.
The area of finances
always is a barometer of how much trust you place in your pastor.
It is a loud and clear message to the pastor of how much or little
you trust him when it comes to finances. If you cannot trust the pastor
at every level, you should not trust him at any level.
If you cannot trust the pastor you should not pay him anything.
If you are going to pay him, then you are to do it with the right
attitude or you should resign and allow Gods church to move
forward with men who have the right attitude toward Gods faithful
servant.
9. Believing
that speaking about finances is carnal and should be avoided as much
as possible, or that speaking about finances will lead to carnality.
First of all we
need to understand the simple truth that carnality begins, not in
the wallet, but in the heart. To avoid dealing with finances
for the purpose of avoiding carnality already reveals that the heart
of those who think this way are already carnal. Besides the fact that
this mentality is nowhere in the Bible should eliminate any lack of
responsibility on the part of any man or men distributing finances
that will not deal with the issue of the pastors salary. If
you cannot properly handle money then why are you involved with it
at all? If you are given to carnality, or fear that this is your bent,
then what in the world are you doing in a position that has anything
to do with money? If you cannot or will not sit down with the right
attitude toward your pastor and treat him with the utmost respect
and love and from that attitude generously supply his needs, then
why are you involved in the salary process at all?
10. Prior bad
church experiences.
Some men do not
have the sense to realize that just because they had a bad church
experience in their past, especially if it had to do with finances,
does not somehow translate into a standard which I have the right
to impose upon a Biblical pastor. Much ignorance is seen when people
in financial circles are always suspect of a pastor and his salary
as if to say that his goal is to rob the church or want all of the
churchs money. As I said in point nine, if you cannot or will
not sit down with the right attitude toward your pastor and treat
him with the utmost respect and love, and from that attitude, generously
supply his needs, then why are you involved in the salary process
at all?
So what should
be the proper heart attitude in considering the salary of a pastor?
Lets see what the text says.
Now what Paul
is speaking of here is not paying a good pastor generously and a bad
pastor less. What Paul is saying is that you should pay a pastor who
rules well generously and hes the only one you should
pay. The issue is not more or less money, its more money or
no money.
What qualifies
a man who is worthy of double pay is a man whose ministry clearly
demonstrates that he labors in the word and in the teaching of the
word. Thats all. There should be no other standard or qualifications
placed upon any pastor for his pay because there are no others given
in the Bible.
Notice that the
"word and teaching" of the word are not
separate, but seen as one unit. No one is fit for ministry nor financial
support who does not meet this qualification.
If a man
is not a worker in his preaching and study, and if a man does not
works hard in learning and in diligence in teaching the Bible, hes
not fit for ministry or any financial support.
The financial
support of a pastor is not to be given because of his title,
but because of his labor in the word and teaching. Notice
that in both 1st Thessalonians 5 and 1st Timothy
5, the pastor is seen as a laborer, a worker. A man who qualifies
under these character traits should be highly loved and honored among
the church body.
It is not a sin
to pay a pastor who labors in this fashion a large salary, rather,
it is a sin not to do it, seeing that this is a clear
command from God.
18 For the
scripture saith, Thou shalt not muzzle the ox that treadeth out
the corn. And, The labourer [is] worthy of his reward.
The scripture
says this! Paul goes to the scriptures to support this truth of
financial support. The issue of a pastors salary is not
to be determined by a personal opinion, nor is it to be done by worldly
standards. It is to be done according to the scriptures
and this is where Paul gets his Biblical support and where we should
get ours. It was sinful to withhold feed to the ox who worked
the fields. In simpler words, the ox was to be allowed to partake
of the grain that his labor produced. Its only common
sense that as a church grows, so does his responsibility and
the needs of the pastor grow as well.
Notice the last
portion of this verse. The worker is worthy of his reward.
How evil is it for men to withhold what is due a pastor
in ministry who labors. God said that he is worthy
of his reward! By reward we mean the fruit naturally resulting from
toils and endeavors. No pastor should feel that he should grovel toward
the church to meet his needs! If hes a hard worker, then the
church is not only obligated, but commanded to support
him financially and generously. Thats what the scripture
saith!
7 Who at
any time serves as a soldier at his own expense? Who plants a vineyard,
and does not eat the fruit of it? Or who tends a flock and does
not use the milk of the flock? 1st
Corinthians 9:7
This is common
sense! I served faithfully many years in the US Army as many of you
who read this book. I know that I didnt pay one cent of my own
personal funds toward the military. The government of the United States
of America made sure that I was fully supplied everything I needed
to serve my country without having to use any of my personal funds
to do it. Paul then uses another illustration of one who plants a
vineyard. What man plants a vineyard and does not eat of the fruit
of it himself? It makes no sense! What man has a flock and does not
partake of the milk of it? It makes no sense! The one who labors partakes
of the fruit of his work. When one is a soldier in the military his
needs are provided for. These examples are to demonstrate the example
of support for workers.
8 I am not
speaking these things according to human judgment, am I? Or does
not the Law also say these things? 9
For it is written in the Law of Moses, "You shall not muzzle the
ox while he is threshing." God is not concerned about oxen, is He?
1st
Corinthians 9:8
Paul
said that the understanding of this principle it is not from human judgment.
He goes to scripture to support his teaching. Do you think that God
is just concerned about oxen only? Do you think that the principle only
applies to oxen and not to those who labor in the ministry?
10 Or is
He speaking altogether for our sake? Yes, for our sake it
was written, because the plowman ought to plow in hope, and the
thresher [to thresh] in hope of sharing [the crops.] 1st
Corinthians 9:10
If a man works
in the pastorate he should enjoy the fruits of his labor. He should
plow in hope and thresh in the hope of partaking of the crops. Clearly
the Bible teaches that the pastor should partake generously in the
finances which his hands and work have labored so diligently in.
11 If we
sowed spiritual things in you, is it too much if we should reap
material things from you? 1st
Corinthians 9:11 (NASB)
That my friends
is the question. The spiritual seeds planted in your life should be
seen as that which is of greater value than that of the material wealth
in this life. If we truly value the spiritual above the material,
then we should be more than willing to supply the material needs of
those who sow spiritual truth in our lives.
Do you honor your
pastor? Now do you understand the question? Its not in empty
words or praise. True honor is demonstrated in giving the man what
he needs. No church will ever be what God intended her to be as long
as she insults His servant.
May every reader
of this booklet who has a faithful pastor or pastors, examine your
heart to see if you are obedient in this area.